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Reflection: A Pattern for Growth

  • Writer: Dr. Michael Stallings
    Dr. Michael Stallings
  • Dec 29, 2025
  • 2 min read
“Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves.” – 2 Corinthians 13:5a

The close of a year brings a quieter kind of invitation. Not the pressure to reinvent yourself, but the permission to pause. Reflection is not about replaying failures or rehearsing regrets. It is about honesty before God. Honest attention to where you have been, how you have walked, and what has shaped you along the way. God uses reflection not to burden us, but to mature us.

When Paul urges believers to examine themselves, he is not calling for harsh self-criticism. He is calling for humility. Growth always begins with clarity. We cannot grow where we refuse to look. Reflection asks simple but searching questions. Where did you trust God this year? Where did fear shape your decisions? What habits strengthened your walk with Christ? What patterns slowly weakened it? These questions are not accusations. They are invitations. God meets us in honest reflection with patience and grace.

Spiritual growth does not follow a straight line. It unfolds in seasons, rhythms, and repeated returns to Christ. Growth is rarely dramatic. More often, it is quiet and incremental. Faithfulness formed over time. You may not be where you hoped to be by now. That does not mean you have failed. It means God is still at work. Forward movement matters more than flawless progress.

As you look toward the year ahead, let reflection become a pattern, not a one-time exercise. Reflect honestly. Repent freely. Realign deliberately. Then rest. Not in your resolve or discipline, but in God’s faithfulness. The God who began His work in you has not abandoned it. He is patient. He is purposeful. And He will complete what He has started.

Prayer: Lord, thank You for walking with me through this year, through every high and every low. As I reflect, give me clarity to see where You have been at work and where You are still inviting growth. Help me examine my heart with courage, release what needs to be surrendered, and move forward with renewed purpose. Shape my life to reflect You more fully, day by day. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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